Friday, June 28, 2013

California Dreaming


Summer’s promise of lazy days spent with a book on the screen porch, or catching up on those long over-due projects just hasn’t happened.   This summer has been fast and full.  We see ourselves coming and going, and much of the time can’t remember which way we’re headed.  In the midst of a rental house renovation and an Applejack overhaul, we left town and headed to California to visit son John.  It was just the tonic I needed.

Santa Barbara is just about perfect.  Nestled down between the Santa Ynez  Mountains  and the Pacific Ocean, the area enjoys misty mornings, sunny afternoons and cool evenings.  We spent four days catching up with each other and easing into the laid-back lifestyle.  We changed accommodations three times just for the fun of it, and were never disappointed.  One beachside motel offered beach cruisers and we took off for an early morning ride to Montecito.  No one was walking the beach once we got past the beach volley-ball game, so we ditched the bikes and scoured the sand looking for beach glass.  The mansions clinging to the cliffs are mind boggling and one expects to see Bo Derek bouncing down the beach (she does in fact live there).  Save one lone surf caster, we saw no-one. 

State Street is a shopping Mecca and although we strolled through the high dollar district, we prefer to scavenge the fabulous thrift shops.   Everyone found treasures and we felt no guilt or shopper’s remorse when we stuffed my new-old Samsonite carry-on bag full of our new-gently used digs. 

The Sandman Inn is our old tried and true place to stay, but after this trip we may recalculate.  The complimentary breakfast is the best thing going in SB; serving up early in a darling “Big Al’s” style diner.  They offer two pools and free passes to the Y.  A true value in anyone’s book, but we all suffered through a long night with the gyrating DJ tunes pulsing through our walls from the “Destination Party” venue next door.

Moving on, we discovered The Marina Inn (complimentary bikes) where they put us up in the corner suite for the night.  It really was sweet and very spacious and lovely, albeit I think George got flea bites while stretching out his periformis while lying on the carpet.  The bike ride got to him.

Moving on, we discovered The Franciscan Inn literally just next door.  This too was nice, offering hot cookies, hot-tub and heated pool.  The room could have been hot….no air condition…but, it wasn’t.  Who would think to ask if the room was climate controlled?  Aren’t they all these days?  Apparently not, and honestly, not needed.  Another match point for Santa Barbara weather.

We ate our fill of fish tacos and California pizza and enjoyed the scene.  We enjoyed walking the piers and boardwalks and taking in the spectacular sunsets.  Most of the time we were there the surf was flat with little wave action and few surfers out, but near the end of our stay the wind kicked up and the swells were ridable.  Within minutes, surfers take to the water and vie for top position on the best waves.  There’s a surfer’s code of ethics that goes unspoken, but it’s easy to spot.  No matter how many boards are in the water, there’s a give and take and courtesy offered to one another.  No worries out there in the water and everyone looks out for each other.

That’s my take on Santa Barbara.  When we left John and headed for North Carolina, I felt great.  He’s okay, in a solid place, where everyone looks out for each other.

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Durant Island 2013


There are not too many traditions in our lives outside family birthdays and Christmas that hold fast and true.  Time, distance and aging make many anthills seem like mountains and it’s easier to just let things slide.  Last weekend a group of friends defied the odds as we gathered on Durant Island for a bit of camping.  Friendship, tenacity and gumption have kept this tradition going for well over 30 years.   

The annual sojourn has its genesis with three fellows who waited tables together on the Outer Banks back in the sixties.   Durant Island is situated in the Albemarle Sound where the Alligator River slaps up against its south east banks.  The island is a spit of barren sand and scrub pine.  A few high knolls offer spectacular views of the island, and other than the bare-bones hunting lodge situated on the far side, there is nothing there but nature.  The island offers a perfect get-away for fun-loving, adventure seeking folks.

In the decades following the sixties, the young waiters brought girlfriends, then wives and babies and often invited new friends to experience the secrets of the island.   The dynamics of the group have changed as life throws us punches with illness, divorce and death, but every spring emails start to fly as we decide whose boat is seaworthy, who’s cooking dinner and who’s tending bar.  A full weekend of total abandonment has been changed to arriving late on Saturday in time for cocktails and leaving after a sunrise breakfast the following morning.  Time on the island may have been shortened, but there’s no short supply of food, fun and camaraderie.

Storm winds and tides have altered the shoreline and inlets so our campsites are ever changing. We never know until we arrive where we’ll pitch our tents and dig our fire pit.  Some years have had slim pickings for a suitable spot, but this year we found the island quite to our delight.  No campers do it any finer than the Durant Island Yacht Club.  We’ve fine-tuned every nuance and have every amenity necessary for a grand time.  This year was no disappointment with top shelf cabernet provided by islander Mike, soft shell crabs fried up by Eddie and late night limoncello served around the campfire by the commodoress (yours truly).

Plenty of stories and swapping old memories took us well into a perfect night. We are the best of friends, accepting each other just the way we are.  We know it’ll be the same year after year and we wouldn’t want it any other way.   

See you on the island.